Kenneth Scott “Ken” Reuwer, 61, of Front Royal, Virginia passed away on Friday, September 13, 2024 while on the Thompson Hollow Trailhead.
Ken was born on July 29, 1963 in Baltimore, Maryland to the late Milton and Mary Kathleen Murray Reuwer. He married Michelle Goldbeck in 1983, and together they have six children. Ken was also preceded in death by his granddaughter, Lucy Reuwer.
Ken studied at St. Fidelis High School with the Capuchin friars. Later he attended Johns Hopkins University, graduated from Virginia Tech, and has a certificate of Legislative Studies from Georgetown University. His professional career spanned across continents in service of our country as a Special Agent for the Defense Investigative Service, Central Intelligence Agency, and Naval Criminal Investigative Service, culminating in his retirement as NCIS Deputy Assistant Director. Over that time he also led the investigation of the attack on the USS Cole, served in Operation Iraqi Freedom, and assisted a member of the House of Representatives as a defense advisor.
In his retirement, Ken served as an active chair on Chelsea Academy’s Board of Directors. While “retired,” he worked as an investigative research contractor, security consultant, handyman, event coordinator and most importantly, a husband and father. When not at his kids’ school and sporting events, he could often be found on a golf course or a baseball diamond, enjoying some of his favorite pastimes.
Ken is survived by his wife of 41 years, Michelle Reuwer; his five sons: Father Daniel Reuwer, Michael Reuwer, Patrick Reuwer (Rachel), Stephen Reuwer and Thomas “Brooks” Reuwer; daughter, Christina Reuwer; his six brothers: Mike Reuwer, John Reuwer, David Reuwer, Chris Reuwer, Steven Reuwer and Tom Reuwer; his two sisters: Trisha Elkins and Kathy Guess; his two grandchildren: Mackenzie Reuwer and Benedict Reuwer, and so many nieces and nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews.
The family will receive friends for a viewing on Sunday, September 22, 2024 from 6:30 to 8:30 PM at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, 120 West Main Street, Front Royal, VA.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:30 AM on Monday, September 23, 2024 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church, 130 Keating Drive, Winchester, VA 22601 with Father Daniel Reuwer officiating. Burial will follow at St. Peter’s Catholic Church Cemetery, 12762 Lee Highway, Washington, VA 22747.
In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to:
Capuchin Franciscan Friars
220 37th street
Pittsburgh PA 15201
If you would like the donation to go to the Fr. Bill Wiethorn Scholarship Fund for the formation of Capuchin Friars, please specify so when sending.
Ken was the consummate gentleman and Special Agent. Our paths crossed during our NCIS careers. Ken’s love of his family was obvious and the center of his life, along with protecting Americans. Rest easy in the hands of Our Lord.
My heartfelt condolences to Ken’s family. Our paths crossed several times during our NCIS careers. Ken was a remarkable person who touched many lives with kindness and grace. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. Wishing his family peace and strength during this difficult time. Rest in peace, Ken.
Reuwer family,
Ken and I were coworkers at NCIS. A great guy and SA. I pray you find comfort in wonderful memories. RIP, Ken.
RIP Ken. It was an absolute pleasure and honor to know and work with you at NCIS
Condolences to the family. May God give the comfort and love at this time
Those of us who served with Ken, shared events as families do and fought the good fights will miss this tireless warrior. What an honor it was friend, to share even the smallest pieces of your journey. Love, respect and sympathy to all those you love. 💞
We are heartbroken for your sudden loss.
Patrick & Alison Kelly
Stephen, Andrew, John Paul and Michael
To Fr. Daniel:
We are so sorry for the sudden separation you are facing from your dear father. May the Lord of all consolation pour out graces upon you and your family during this difficult time, and your faith sustain you. You are all in our prayers, especially your father. May Kenneth Reuwer rest in the sweet refreshment of the Beatific Vision.
I had the fortunate pleasure and honor of working with Ken through the years as well as sharing his valued
friendship. He was an exceptional person in every way and one of the finest persons I have ever known.
My sincere condolences to Michelle and the rest of the Reuwer family.
To Fr. Daniel:
You have my sincerest condolences in the loss of your father.
I am glad to know that you are able to be with your family at this time.
My heartfelt prayers go out for you and your family.
Joseph
Dearest Michelle, I’m so sorry for your loss. I know your faith is strong and true. You are all in my prayers. May the Lord wrap His loving arms around you, comfort you, and remind you of many happy times together. Eternal Rest grant unto Ken, O Lord. Love and Peace, Mary
Please accept our condolences for your loss Fr. Daniel. May our Blessed Mother who is well acquainted with sorrow and joy, wrap you in her mantle and comfort you and your family.
Grief is the last act of love we give to those we love, but we do not grieve like the rest of mankind, without hope.
We will hear the loud trumpet call of God, and the dead will rise again.
Dad is at home with the Lord. He will be greatly missed. Peace and comfort to you and your family as you grieve your loss. God bless you all, in Jesus’
Name I pray. 🙏🏽💖🧎🏽♀️📿
Michael & Judith Marshall
I had the pleasure of working with or for Ken numerous times, during my tenure with the NCIS. The most memorable was during our tour in IRAQ . Ken was a great leader and was a person I held in high esteem. My sincere condolences to his family during this trying time.
So Sorry for your loss . Fr.Dan , your dad left this world way too soon.
We are keeping all of your family in our prayers ,may you all bring peace and comfort to each other .
You now have your own special angel in Heaven ,He must have been so proud of you.
Thank you for all that you do For All Saints Church in Manassas .
We are heartbroken at the loss of Ken, and our prayers are with you. We remember with fondness meeting you in Naples, Italy while working for NCIS. Then again our paths crossed in Chesapeake, Virginia, at Prince of Peace Catholic Church. You were an inspiration to our Faith, and know that you are holding fast to Her now. May God and His Blessed Mother comfort you in this moment of need.
Our paths crossed briefly during his time in the UK. A wonderful and generous man – with a deep sense of right and wrong and a keen interest in history. Back in the USA, the two of us spent a very memorable day out at the Gettysburg battlefield some years ago (where Ken even introduced me to Grits at a local restaurant). His knowledge of the battlefield and in particular the significance of the area near The Angle stone wall is etched in my mind for its poignancy and the huge losses that occurred there. Ken helped bring that into vivid focus for me. I loved his kindness but I really admired his integrity and can’t help feeling we’re all a little poorer for his loss.
Albeit for such a short time, it was a treat to have known him. Rest in peace Ken. I shall keep you and all the family in my prayers.
Fear not, for I have redeemed you.
I have called you by name.
You are mine.
(Isaiah 43)
My deep condolences to Ken’s family and friends. I treasure the great opportunity and privilege to have worked with Ken and see up close his awesome special agent and leadership skills. What an incredible career and service to his country, and for that, we’re forever grateful to Ken and the Reuwer family. Ken is a Great America. May the comfort of family and friends bring solace to Ken’s loved ones. God Rest his soul.
Fr. Daniel,
You are such a light for us at All Saints and I was heartbroken to hear of the sudden loss of your father. May the peace and consolation of the Holy Spirit hold you and your family up during these difficult days. My prayers will continue for you and your entire family, and for the repose of the soul of your dear father.
Dear Reuwer Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. You have our deepest condolences. We have many fond memories of our time in Chesapeake with you all.
Eternal rest grant unto him, o Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him.
The Roth Family
Faith and fandom connected me to Ken. I had the pleasure of taking in 18 innings of baseball with Ken at Camden Yards and Nationals Park as we watched my nephew, Trey, play. He was a thoughtful conversationalist and always made me laugh. I especially enjoyed accounts of his baseball teams and admired his coaching philosophy of including every child regardless of ability. Luke 18:16 makes me think of Ken.
To Michelle and the wider family and friends. Whilst online I was shocked and saddened to learn of the untimely passing of Ken. Becoming friends with Ken and Michelle following a chance work commitment in Scotland circa 1996, Ken, Michelle and the kids spent time in Scotland with our family memories which we continue to cherish. RIP Ken your service is done. Brian,Kathryn Rachael and Ross