James B. “Jim” Bywaters Jr., 57, of Flint Hill, Virginia was called to his heavenly home on Thursday, March 30, 2022 at Fauquier Hospital in the arms of his loving parents, James Buddy Bywaters Sr. and Elizabeth Ann Smoot Bywaters.
A graveside service will be held at 2 P.M. on Monday, April 4, 2022 at Washington Masonic Cemetery with Sammy Campbell officiating in Washington, Virginia 22747.
He was born May 28, 1964 and graduated from Rappahannock County High School in 1982.
Even though he was confined to a wheel chair most of his adult life due to a devastating diving accident in 1984. He never lost his sense of humor and love of everything and everyone. He inspired everyone who met him and he taught his family so many beautiful things in life as seen through his eyes.
His aunt, Joan Oliver, set him up with his own personal computer which he was able to navigate on his own. It brought him so much joy to be able to talk with his friends.
His grandfather told him about the purple martins he grew up with and how they eat mosquitos. He wanted our Jim to be able to enjoy his deck in the summer while enjoying the birds. After several years it was achieved and he has had hundreds of birds return for nearly twenty years. He looked forward to their arrival every spring.
He is survived by Krystal Cole Smoot, his cousin who was more like a sister; many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. He will be sadly missed by his family who had so many wonderful memories with him.
He is preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Lloyd and Vergie Green Bywaters; and his maternal grandparents, Arthur Smoot Sr. and Goldie Riley Smoot; his beloved uncle Bobby Smoot; and his constant companion, his dog Ziggy.
Flowers or memorial contributions may be made to Heartland Hospice at:
493 Blackwell Rd. suite 319 Warrenton, VA 22186
Jimmy was such an amazing gentleman with a lovely sense of humor. I’m so glad I got to meet him. I’m so sorry for his mom and dad and the emptiness, loss they are feeling . I hope they will find some comfort knowing Jimmy is with his grandpa and zd playing with Ziggy.
Thank you for the years of care that you gave so lovingly to our sweet son. You are family to us and you were Jim’s favorite caregiver . Love you
Ann and Buddy, I’m so sorry to hear of Jimmy’s passing. My deepest condolences to you and your family. I’ll always remember the good times we had. Jimmy was a great guy. Keeping y’all in my thoughts and prayers.
My condolences and prayers go out to the family. I know the angels have a new flier.
I so enjoyed my visits with him.
Ann and Buddy, I will miss knowing Jimmy is enjoying his birds and your amazing flowers as well as his beloved family. I sent a great picture of Arthur and other memories to Jen Thede recently. Miss you all, and living across the street.
Elizabeth Ann and Buddy,
I just heard about Jimmy’s passing and am so sorry to hear it. It has been a long time since Mom and I went for a visit but can still remember how truly sweet he was and his purple martin birdhouses. Mom thought the world of him. She felt bad that she could not visit after she became ill. Sending love and praying for your peace during this trying time.
Elizabeth Ann and Buddy and family
I am part of the family and Goldie was my aunt and father’s sister. I just wanted to tell you I am sorry to hear of your your loss. I know he was beloved.
God Bless you,
Janice Riley Spangenburg