Rockland resident V. Carol Barr, a federal government retiree with 37 years of service behind her, died quietly in her sleep January 18 following a 12-year battle with lung cancer. She was 81.
Carol, wife of retired journalist and U.S. government public affairs official Malcolm Barr Sr., was diagnosed with Stage 4 lung cancer in March 2010 and to a great extent chose her own long term treatment to augment several radiation and chemo sessions, living a more-or-less healthful and active life style throughout the period. For several years she volunteered at the Blue Ridge Hospice which accepted her case just four days before she passed.
Born in Coeburn, VA, Carol moved to Washington DC straight out of high school accepting employment at the U.S. Department of Labor as a shorthand/typist. Shortly thereafter, she married and bore two sons, Stephen Brickey of Tennessee and Danny Brickey who lives in Florida. She later met and married Malcolm in 1984 and the couple produced a “late life” child, Malcolm Barr Jr., an Iraq war USAF veteran now working in Newport News, Virginia.
Carol also leaves a sister, Barbara DiFilipo (husband Richard), of Seffner, FL; grandchildren Ashley Hoilman (husband Mikey), and Stephen Jr., all of whom reside in Tennessee. Also, several great grandchildren.
A funeral service is scheduled for 2 p.m. Friday, January 28, 2022 at Rockland Community Church followed by a private burial ceremony at nearby Rockland Cemetery. A reception is planned in the old church building directly opposite the community church.
In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to the Salvation Army, 357 Cloud St, Front Royal, VA 22630; Blue Ridge Hospice, 333 West Cork Street, Winchester, VA 22601 or to the American Cancer Society, P.O. Box 22478, Oklahoma City, OK 73123.

Carol is my sister and best friend. She had a heart of gold. I will miss her forever and a day! Love you Sis
Carol is my first cousin
She is a special lady who
We loved dearly. She had a good heart and fought this battle with faith in her God.
She is home now. She will surely be missed. The angels rejoiced and welcomed her home to kneal at our Saviors
Feet . He will tell her welcome home my good and faithful servant you have
faught a good fight and kept the faith. To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. We love you Carol and will always keep you in our heart.
We love you Carol and will miss you, but we know that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.
You fought a good fight and kept the faith.
May God give your family peace knowing your not suffering anymore.
Carol’s friendship meant so much to me through many, many years. She was that rare combination of beauty and brains. We shared so many memories. It is impossible to put into words how much I will miss her. My deeply treasured friend. My deepest sympathy to Malcolm and her children and grandchildren.
Malcolm & family, I so am so sorrow for the loss of your mother, Carolyn . May God be near to each of you as you try to adjust to the challenges and adjustments to her absence.
Sue Roberson (Chris’ Granny Sue)